Typically, TikTok is filled with people either talking about a great date they went on or people showing off their flashy dates. What makes TikTok creator Abby Benson's idea so great is that you can personalize it any way you want. Benson shares that her and her boyfriend create ABC dates. That's a fun way to say that they alternate planning dates suggested by a specific letter of the alphabet.
For example, her "A" date was going to an Applebee's. Then he planned the "B" date of going bowling — simple, yet followed pattern. The idea is that you can make it as simple or complex as you'd like, but you have to follow the letters of the alphabet.
There's a reason that this creative date night is going viral. First of all, planning dates can be hard. When you have a little bit of inspiration to work with — even just a simple letter — you have something to go off of. There's also less pressure to do something extravagant on date night because you're being creative, which can reportedly help for a stronger relationship over time (per Psychology Today).
